Personal Growth


Acting On Your Prayers


Where are you in your life?  Are you where you would like to be?  Are you living out your dreams? Is there a lack of faithfulness, focus or faith that has kept you stuck?  Are you ready for a breakthrough? Well, I highly recommend that you step out on some old fashioned faith.  Many people pray, but do not act on their prayers. In the Bible, Matthew 13:58 states,“ And he (Jesus) did not do many miracles there because of their lack of faith”

Often times, it is not our lack of faithfulness and focus, but instead, our lack of faith.  When our dreams are delayed and deferred, we lose faith. Faith is a game changer. It changes circumstances and situations. It opens doors, moves mountains, defeats giants, heals sick bodies and makes men walk on water. No matter what you are facing, remember to always include faith in the equation of your life.  Your dreams can come true and you can live out God’s calling, even during the tough seasons of life, but you must “faith it til you make it”.

Keep praying and laying your dreams and plans before God, and always remember to act on your prayers.  Prayer is asking and acting in faith.  I believe that when we ask and act in faith, then God will answer our prayers according to our faith.




It All Started with a Cup of Coffee


It’s All Started on Pike’s Place Street, With One Cup of Coffee.

Founded in 1971, in Seattle as a local coffee bean roaster and retailer, the company has expanded rapidly. In the early 1990’s, Starbucks opened a new store every workday, a pace that would continue on into the 2000’s. The first store outside of the United States and Canada opened in the mid-1990s, and currently, overseas stores constitute for almost one third of Starbucks’ stores.

 By 2008, after years of focusing on rapid expansion, the traits that made Starbucks successful were in jeopardy and their sales began to slide at a distressing rate; the stock price was falling and the company’s survival was at risk.   That’s when former chief executive officer, Howard Schultz, returned as CEO to oversee the day-to-day operations.  Once he did, the company stabilized and was transformed by refocusing on core values and reigniting the required innovation in order to thrive in a dramatically shifting marketplace.  All of this was done while fending off harsh critics and huge competitors. In his book “Onward: How Starbucks Fought for Its Life without Losing Its Soul”, Howard Schultz stated, “Starbucks has always been about so much more than coffee. But without great coffee, we have no reason to exist. There is a word that comes to my mind when I think about our company and our people.  That word is “love.” I love Starbucks because everything we’ve tried to do is steeped in humanity.”

Starbucks continues to soar in the second decade of the 21st Century, and “It All Started with a Cup of Coffee”. Today, it’s a brand, culture and an experience.  





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Happy Birthday to a Precious Jewel

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Happy Birthday to a Precious Jewel-My Mom

I would like to give a shout out to the Greatest Mom in the world. My Mom, Mrs. Jewel D. Lindsey is truly a Jewel. Her price is far about rubies. I praise her today for her strength, wisdom, leadership, and love and for being an example of what a godly woman should be.

There’s nothing like a mother’s love. There’s nothing like being favored by a mother who loves you, loves the Lord and loves equally loves all of her six children. Today, my Mom turned 75 years young. What a blessing from the Lord.

Dear Momma,

You are an amazing woman, one in whom I praise and adore. I love you so much and thank God that out of all your six children, God has chosen me to share the same birthday with you. Jan. 28th– Now that’s a special blessing of favor to be able to share your birthday and I’m honor to be your youngest son.

For the times you taught me how to fear God
For the times you taught me how to be respectful and responsible
For the times you help me through school
For the times you help me through the death of my father and your husband
For the times you model leadership and courage as a widow/single parent
For the times you support me in my ministry when others doubted my vision
When you add it all up the full cost of your love is NO CHARGE!

I thank God that he allowed my Mom, Mrs. Jewel Lindsey to see 75 years. Your leadership is resilient and your strength is amazing!  You are my rock, the wind beneath my wings. You are a precious Jewel. 

Love you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much Mom-

Happy Birthday and many more!


One Word Theme: Discipline


It’s a new year and every year we should have one word that motivates us or pushes us to the next level.  Every New Year, 87 % of adults create new goals and resolutions, only to experience the same frustrating results: false starts and failure. In fact, 50% of resolution makers will fail by the end of January!  Imagine if you only had one word to focus on that would help you become the best version of you.

This year, my one word is DISCIPLINE.  I will keep this word before me so that I may be consistent in my daily devotions, healthy eating habits, regular excising and the management of my time.  This is the year to improve the totality of my whole being and it won’t happen with wishful thinking.

The successful person has the habit of doing the things failures don’t like to do.”– E. M. Gray

Discipline is the difference between winning and losing or victory and defeat. It’s doing what you don’t want to do, when you don’t want to do it.  Discipline is really about choosing what you want the most and now.  It’s the difference between good and great.

In 1999, co-authors Dan Britton and Jimmy Page discovered a better way to start the New Year and the solution to failed resolutions and unrealized goals. Instead of creating goals and resolutions, they found one word that would be their driving force for the year. No goals. No resolutions. Just one word. Their book, “One Word that will Change Your Life”gives focus, clarity and the drive that you need to start on a new path for the New Year. My one big word will inspire and motivate me to start the process of becoming the best version of me that God created me to be.

What will your one word be for 2013?  Remember mine is DISCIPLINE!

What will your personal theme be for 2013?

What one word will drive you to be your best version of you?








It’s NOW! or Never.



Life is moving fast and the time that we possess won’t be any more. There’s no better time than right now to start living a life of discipline, drive and determination. Nor is there a better time to live for God, develop your mind, build wealth or live a life of faith.  This is your year and now is the time to break free from the status quo and maximize your life. If you don’t do it now, then the chances are that you never will. Don’t let this season pass you by- create a sense of urgency and live your best life NOW!  Now is the time to become God’s best version of you by maximizing your potential and breaking through your mental limitations.

  • Change the way you think.
  • Spend time with life-long learners.
  • Read good books, especially the Bible.
  • Write down your goals.
  • Make a photo album of your dreams.
  • Find a mentor.
  • Don’t forget to say your prayers.

There aren’t any valid excuses for staying stuck and stagnant.  This is your time, this is your season.  It’s Now! Or Never.


Children Know BEST

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“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it”.  Proverbs 22:6.

How are children wired? However they are wired is how you should train them.

My son who plans to attend New School in NYC plays the trumpet and loves music- Jazz in particular. So as parents, my wife and I pushed him towards his passion and the way that he should go based on his giftedness and interests. This may very well change the trajectory of his life. Support your child in what they love and not what YOU think is best. Never try to live your dreams through your children, but rather let them live their own dreams through their own unique personality. When parents support and push their children towards their God given passions, then they in return will help them become God’s best version of what He has destined them to become.





The Thing’s that Leaders Do

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Leadership is the capacity to lead.  The main job of a leader is to lead.  It is the leader’s job to impact, influence and inspire his or her followers. In order to do so, the leader must first conduct a reality check of the organization.  This will include where the organization has been, currently is, needs to go, and the totality of the organization and leadership. This requires an honest assessment. Max Depree stated, “The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.” Leadership at its core is servant-hood. Leadership is not just about leading others, but also about serving. It is more about who you are than what you do


  1. Find their identity in Jesus and not in their title.
  2. Are servants who have been given an opportunity to lead.
  3. Are teachable.
  4. Are team players.
  5. Are self-leaders.
  6. Help empower their followers.
  7. Are good in and under authority.
  8. Are big vision people.
  9. Are accountable.
  10. Have ownership of the vision (vision carriers)
  11. Are aligned with the vision, mission, values and the culture of the organization.
  12. Reproduce themselves.
  13. Are excited and passionate
  14. Leaders are excited about the future.
  15. Are life-long learners.

Leaders are always growing in their spiritual, personal and professional lives.

Jeff O’Leary stated, One of the great secrets of becoming a great leader-never stoping.

Leaders are always growing and developing their leadership skills. -These are the things that leaders do. 


Green Bay Packers and Minnesota Vikings-Rematch!

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I’ve been a Green Bay Packers fans every since 1992. So it’s no surprise that I am looking forward to the rematch of the Packers and the Vikings on tonight.

Aaron Rodgers is unarguably the BEST quarterback in the game and last year’s MVP of the league. I’m pumped and excited about the playoffs and more so about the Packers getting revenge from last week’s loss to the Vikes. The key is to stop Adrian Peterson.  Long live the Packs!!!


21 Principles to Stay Youthful and Fruitful

Forever 21

It’s a New Year and time for beginnings.  Each year we get a little older but, truthfully, it is possible to get a  litter younger by simply being more youthful.  Instead of growing old, imagine yourself growing young. Imagine being 21 forever at the age of 35, 48, or 55.  Not acting 21, but instead feeling close to the age of 21.  The life expectancy for women is 80 years and 70 years for men.   If we make a choice to grow younger with time, then we can reverse the aging process. I believe in anti-aging and longevity- we can live longer with a greater quality of life.  Psalm 90 provides a prayer that teaches us to “number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom”. We must pray in the pursuit to stay youthful and fruitful”.

Understand that it is possible to receive a century of living by seeing 100 years and beyond. You could live 35 percent longer than what’s expected by applying the principles below, but note: these 21 principles must be applied forever…”Forever 21″.

1.  Pray daily.
2.  Do something every day that brings out the kid in you!
3.  Laugh more, laugh louder!
4.  Don’t take yourself too seriously-(Do take God seriously).
5 . Avoid Drama and people with it (pray for them).
6.  Remain positive and stay out of other people business.
7.  Exercise daily (Sweat & drink lots of water)
8.  Have fun (get a cool hobby to enjoy).
9.  Forgive in order to live.
10. Treat everyone with respect (have healthy relationships).
11. Reduce Your Stress-(Worrying is a warning light).
12. Live a Balanced Life (manage your time).
13. Go to bed on time-(You need rest to be your best)!
14. Go to Worship weekly (it adds an extra 5 years to your life).
15. Manage your finances and make wise investments.
16. Have a dream and pursue it (have a reason to get out of bed).
17. Hug daily (people or pets).
18. Keep learning.
19. Enjoy the simply things-(Sunsets and flowers).
20. Spend time with family and friends.
21. Help the poor and serve those with the least.

As you continue in the aging process life can become more of an adventurous discovery. Remember to grow young, not old, through the growing process. Someone once stated that, “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away”. The more breathless moments we encounter, the more we’ll feel like we’re “21”. Live young at heart and not old in body.

“Life is a daring Adventure or Nothing!”- Helen Keller


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